Wednesday 22 January 2014

This Body Was Made to Mother You

The following is a piece that I intended to submit for the Mothers Milk writing prize (support small press, they really matter!). However the deadline came round and I wasn't happy it was long enough or strong enough for submission, so I've decided to share it here instead.



This body was made to mother you, but I didn’t always know this.  Deep in a night when the moon was dark, this body joined with another and together they created a spark within my womb and that spark was you.  I felt that spark, knew it, a woman’s knowing of life arriving within.

This womb nurtured and nourished you, cradled and protected you. This belly swelled and grew and told the world that here was a new soul, precious and life changing. That here was a new mother being created along with her child. This belly rippled and danced as together we flowed from moon to moon.  

Early morning and this body announced you were heading earth-side.  Energy rippled through me, through this womb as you made your birthing journey.  These hips rocked to an ancient rhythm and when the moment came this body roared you out, like every other mother there has ever been, generation after generation. Instinctive and primal, this body opened up and birthed you into waiting, loving hands.

In that moment I knew this body was made to mother you.  These arms were made to hold you, your body a perfect fit against mine, skin to skin, heart to heart.  These hands to touch you, to trace every feature and commit it to memory. These eyes to look into yours and say we belong to each other.  Every sense breathing you in, this body will know yours always and forever.

These breasts were made to nourish you, to comfort you, to pillow your downy head in sleep.  You instinctively seek them out, clinging on to my clothes, my hair.  You suckle furiously and wait for the rush, your eyes closing, you snuffle and mutter your milky dreams against my skin.

I remember a younger version of me, the version that didn’t know it would want you one day.  The version that didn’t like this body very much.  That girl didn’t know then that she would be proud of what her body could do.  That she would be proud of the silvery marks on her skin that tell the story of motherhood.

As you grow and change, this heart finds joy in every smile and yet mourns the passing of the days.  We talk of everything and nothing, I mutter comforting nonsense into your ears.  I sing to you of starlight and moonshine and dreams.  As we lay together in the half light of early morning, as my body nourishes you at the breast, I know that every part of me, was made to mother you.

Saturday 11 January 2014

New Year, New Dreams

As the new year takes root and my baby boy turns a month old I am starting to think about what I want my work to look like for the next twelve months or so.  I seemed to spend a lot of 2013 working really hard and being ridiculously busy, but not actually achieving very much, so I decided that this year I needed to dream my way into a new way of living and working, not least because I have a very small person to take care of too!

The problem is its not a simple dream, I am a crazy, creative ideas person.  I have more ideas floating around at one time than anybody could manage in a single lifetime, I have an ideas book that is bursting at the margins!

I've slowly realised that my path is changing, after many years of being very focused on pregnancy and birth, I am finding myself drawn to working with women in wider context.  Using creativity and connection to the divine feminine, I want to help women to live, to heal and become their fullest selves.

So for 2014 I am bringing Wild Magpie into being.  My offering of healing work and celebration of all things feminine.  I hope some of you will join me on this journey.

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